Lost my brother to cancer and I will probably never get over it. How do you get over such a tragedy, how do you deal with the loss? I have no idea, but hope that it will change for the better soon :(

I am so sorry

Herman,
I am so sorry for the loss of your Brother. It is hard to loose someone so close to you. To answer your questions, I don't think you ever get over the loss of a loved one. We just learn to take one day at a time and move on the best we can trying not to forget the memories and love we shared with that person. I lost my Dad Aut, 15, 2007 to an accident. There are still bad days and days that I cry. But I have found so much comfort in forums like this and memory-of.com Keeping my Dad's memory alive helps me a lot. I am here if you need someone to listen. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and your family.

hi herman, im so sorry for your lost i know how you feel i lost my only brother last year day before easter .he had a heart attack on his job and no one was around cpr could have saved him.its been a yr now and i still miss him and i talk to him all the time.its so hard and then i just lost my partner in feb and i feel like i dont know how much more i can take god be with you .