Debbie

Hi I have lost 5 people that I love and truly miss so very much.
I have spent a little over a year losing interest in things that I enjoy doing i.e. traveling, shopping, friends...I came across your website and decided that I needed to make a change. I need to become active again before it affects my health. I believe writing, talking and sharing with others that are going through what I am, is a start.

Spouse, Parent, Relative

I have lost my: husband August 6, 2006
cousin November 18, 2006
mom January 25, 2007
grandfather April 18, 2007
grandmother Novmber 24, 2007
Up until this point I have been trying to cope wih the lost of my love ones on my own. I have a degree in Social Work so I basically was trying to counsel myself. Although it's been a little over a year since my last love one passed, it is still so difficult. Holidays are especially the most difficult and with Mother's Day approaching, I find myself bursting into tears and missing my mom and grandmother. They were truly my best friends. I want to spend Mother's Day with them so bad. Laugh, eat, exchange gifts and relax before heading home. Or send each a bouquet of flowers and a card expressing my love. I didn't know you could miss someone more than life. Although I won't be able to physically spend Mother's Day with them, I will put flowers on the gravesite and keep the memories of Mother's Day past close to my heart.