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Spritual Healer/Grief Counselor
Hi friends!
This is Zara, your friend for life. I am a spiritual healer/Guide/grief Counselor. If you feel that you need any guidance or direction in your time of grief please feel free to contact to me. My counseling is free of charges. All you have to do is just send me a message and i shall be glad to be there. It is my foremost duty to help people in pain. I believe when we are in grief, a part of us dies and at that point of time we don't need sympathy alone we need compassion. Compassion means understanding other people's pain and their pain tolerance as well as their limitations to deal with the compexities of pain.
know me to know me!!!!!!
i think no matter what we consider ourselves to be... the truth is always hidden...coz we never want to face it..
there are two kinds of people in this world that actually make a difference...one who like u...the other...who don't like u...
to live... we must live...and love... coz they are the only two ingredients for a peaceful life...
life is always a bed of roses..with the thorns...depending which side r u sleeping on...
there cud be fragrance...there cud be pain.. both are essential...
people will talk no matter what... so just do ur bit..and forget about it...
nature has its own way of rewarding and abusing us...we always get what we deserve..
the good and the bad..are mere perceptions..
we are nothing but products of nature longing to find our true selves...we get lost in the myths and ideologies hence we beacome victims and consequently the products of circustances...From the powerful products of nature to the helpless victims of circumstances... the journey unfolds many mysteries only superficially...and we become smaller day by day...
not all that sad that we become small.the sadder part is we don't want to grow big after that(lack of realization)... a moment is but a moment, coz it is the moment which makes all the difference in our life... a moment lasts forever....it's like the air...it's here and everywhere.all the time... always... so make the most of every moment...
think about the small things that make a big difference to the world... going beyond the 'I' is difficult... but to an extent it is possible...
There is the unknowable, something far beyond the mind, beyond all thought.But you cannot possibly approach it with all your knowledge and memories, with the scars of experience, the weight of anxiety,guilt and fear.And you canot get rid of these things by any effort whatsoever. You can be free of them only by listening to every thought and every feeling without trying to interpret what you hear; just listen, just observe and be attentive out of emptiness.Then you can live in this world untouched by its hatred, its ugliness, its brutality. You can function as a clerk, as a bus driver, as a bank manager, or what you will, without being caught in status. But the moment you bring to that function the psychological factors of ambition, authority, power, prsetige, you canot live in this world without everlasting sorrow.
Most of us really know all this. One doesn't need at all to listen to a talk of this kind. We know well enough that this is a terrible, brutal, ugly world, where every religion, every political function is trying to shape man's thought;where the welfare state is making us more and more comfortable dull, stupid, because we have used conflict as a means of becoming outwardly clever, bright. But inwardly we have not chnaged at all; we carry on as we have been for centuries:fearful, anxious, guilty, seeking power, seeking sex. We are perpetuating what is ANIMALISTIC, which means we are still functioning within the psychological structure of society.
The question is how to break that structure totally, how to destroy it completely and be out of it, without going insane and without becoming a monk, a nun or a hermit. That structure can only be broken IMMEDIATELY, there is no time in which to do it. Either you do it immediately or never.


all is now.. and here...



Well, a lot more to share but may be on one on one basis.
Take care and God Bless you and May God bless everyone.
About My Loss
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She was angel...never saw her complaining or even frowning...so losing her to something as painful as throat cancer was confusing... It's His call...His will Whatever He wishes must happen...and we must accept it...They say 'acceptance is half the battle won'...


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